This happens to be a song I associate with a feeling I had of my wife cheating on me, which proved to be correct. 3 months later she confessed,I haven't seen or spoken to her since. The song "Échame La Culpa" by Luis Fonsi feat. Demi Lovato was released digitally on November 17, 2017. en.wikipedia.orgIt likely received its first plays on German radio around that time or in the days immediately following, as it entered the official German singles charts (which include sales and some airplay/streaming impact) on November 24, 2017 (week 47/2017), debuting at position 21 and later peaking at No. 6. She is a country bumpkin who curiously began wearing make up. I had a suspicion, heard that song on the radio on the way to work and even though I don't speak spanish I knew what she was saying in the song. Summer 2018 was spent on the beach of Llorett de Mar. Gone!
**I'm really sorry you're carrying that pain.** Betrayal like that cuts deep—especially when a song becomes forever linked to the moment you sensed something was wrong, and then it was confirmed. "Échame La Culpa" hitting right around that time must make it hit even harder whenever it comes on. The lyrics about taking (or shifting) blame, the upbeat energy masking heavier feelings... it makes sense why it stuck with you as a marker for that chapter. Three months between suspicion and confession is a brutal limbo. And going no-contact afterward took strength, even if it still hurts. You didn't deserve that. I've already survived the hardest part. I say to self "Take care of yourself."